Love in action

There are certain times of the year that are particularly difficult, especially for thsoe who are grieving. Christmas, for instance (a time that is traditionally devoted to family) is particularly poignant for many.

A few years ago, I heard of one pastor who would visit personally at Christmastime with every family in the parish who had celebrated a funeral during the previous year. He would present each family with a poinsettia as a tangible reminder of his visit, and of the prayerful support of the community. This simple but significant gesture speaks eloquently of the love that is demonstrated when a community at prayer cares for those who are in pain.

As I am writing this reflection, I am away from my usual desk, visiting with a family who is in mourning, having received the news in recent days of the death of the matriarch of the family. These next days will be praticulary difficult for some, but will also be significant moments of blessing for all those who are present, and for those who are not as well.

Funerals, and the rituals which surround them are signs of love and rituals which speak of life which continues even after our earthly existence is complete. The rituals are meant to celebrate the past, to commemorate the present, and to help those who mourn to look forward in hope.