Wednesday, September 30, 2009
Surrounded with the Church's prayer
In many ways, society tries it's hardest to deny the significance of death. In some walks of life, people can either be ignored or passed over very quickly if they are unable to contribute in some significant way to the betterment of society or to the perceived good of themselves or others.
This question becomes ever more apparent (and sometimes dangerously so) especially in light of current legislation which is being debated in the Canadian House of Commons, specifically aimed at legalizing euthanasia in certain cases. In contrast to the tennets of this debate, the Church has always held the value of human life, from conception to natural death, in highest regard.
The liturgy of funerals (which were celebrated not once but twice in these parts today) pay particular attention to the dignity of the person. There are a number of references scattered throughout the liturgy which speak of baptism, the moment when life in faith begins. At the very beginning of this moment of prayer, the gathered community is invited to remember the day of baptism, when the departed loved one was first welcomed into the Church, given new life in Christ, and clothed with the garment of salvation.
At other moments during the liturgy, we give thanks for the food of life which we receive at the table of the Saviour and we commend our loved one to the mercy of God in the sure and certain hope that, together with all those who have died in Christ, we will rise with him on the last day.
In music, prayer and with gestures of love and concern, it is right that we should give thanks for the blessings which have been bestowed in this life, for they are all signs to us of God's goodness, and of our fellowship with the saints in Christ. When all is said and done, we are all saints in the making, who count on the prayer and guidance of others who have already walked this road, until the day that we too stand face to face with the One who gives us life.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Enlightened by Christ
Her parents have accepted a special responsibility, to train her in the practice of the faith. From now on, it's their duty (not choice) to bring her up and teach her to keep God's commandments as Christ taught us, by loving God and our neighbour.
The day of one's baptism is indeed a day of great celebration, and at times the duty that is imposed on parents, godparents and others who have the joy and privilege to form our children can be overlooked, but it should always be taken with the utmost gravity because privilege (ie being entrusted with the care of a child) should never be separated from it's fiduciary duty (to teach by word and example, the importance of faith, prayer and forgiveness).
Luckily, no parents are ever asked to take on this responsibiity without the help of others (the child's godparents, and the members of the worshipping community where the child will learn the value of prayer and of self-sacrifice).
Enlightened by faith, this child is now to walk, always as a child of the Light, until the day that the Lord comes to take us all home. In the meanwhile, human voices entreat the mercy and love of God who blesses the mother of this child as she thanks God for the gift of her child, and the child's father as well, who together with his wife, will be the first of teachers in the ways of faith, bearing witness to the faith by what he says and does.
Words of encouragement
Yesterday morning, he celebrated the liturgical Memorial of Saint Wenceslaus, patron saint of the Czech Republic and spoke to those who were gathered, reminding them of the heroism displayed by their patron, and encouraging them to follow in his footsteps.
Following the Mass, His Holiness had a special message for young people, which he shared with them before departing from the Esplanade where the Mass had just been celebrated.
And of course, at the conclusion of his Apostolic journey, His Holiness had parting words to share with the Catholics and other leaders prior to boarding the flight for home.
Back south of the Alps, the Pope sent a video message to Ars today, to greet priests who are participating in an International Retreat in that French town this week.
Cudos to all those who have worked so diligently to prepare all the texts, and the transmissions of these words of wisdom. They are all appreciated by those who have the privilege to hear them in person, to view the video transmissions, and to read the words themselves, which will be fodder for thought and prayer for years to come.
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Where saints have trod
And there's also video coverage provided by CTV (Vatican Television) of the Sunday homily being delivered, if you want to hear it in person. From this person's reading, it looks as though the liturgical gurus in the Vatican have changed the readings of the day. This is a rare occurrence. Usually the texts are the same throughout the world, but in this case, the Holy Father is celebrating a special Mass for a people who have for too long been isolated and left to languish. The purpose of this voyage is to reassure them that they are united in joy and suffering with the Successor of Peter.
At the conclusion of the outdoor Mass, the Holy Father led the recitation of the Angelus, and as is his custom, addressed the crowds with words of encouragement. His Holiness acknowledged the presence of pilgrims not only from Moravia, but from the surrounding countries including Poland and Slovakia, and renewed his invitation to all the gathered crowds 'to remain faithful to your Christian vocation and to the Gospel, so as to build together a future of solidarity and peace.'
Before the day is through, His Holiness will also meet with members of other Christian denominations, and with members of the academic community.
Saturday, September 26, 2009
Making it count
Since the Holy Father is indeed a Head of State (remember that Vatican City is an independent State), he has the right not only to meet with Catholics when travelling to other lands, but with members of political stature as well. Often, the words that are exchanged at this level are akin to the closed-door meetings of Presidents and Prime Ministers, and even the odd Governor General, except that the texts of the Holy Father's greetings, speeches and exhortations at this level are often published for the world to see. This visit to the Czech Republic is no exception.
This historic meeting has special significance since the place of the encounter, the Presidential Palace of Prague, once housed the offices of the Holy Roman Emperor.
Stepping back in time seems to be the theme of the day as the Holy Father treads the places where significant personalities in our faith history once lived, worked, suffered and died. What's most interesting though is that although to the naked eye, there seemed to be little or no attention paid to the arrival of the leader of the world's Roman Catholics, experience has proven that whereever the Pope visits, a renewed life seems to be kindled among believers.
Only time will tell whether this will hold true this time too.
A prayerful encounter
In some parts of the world, it is easy to be a Catholic today, especially when there is support from family, friends and others who share the path of faith. In some locales, it is easy to practice faith because the civic state does not impose any restrictions, but in other parts of the world, faith is not so easy. For some, the mere utterance of a credo or an admission of adherence to a specific faith tradition can spell certain trial, persecution and even death.
In his address to the Catholics gathered in the Cathedral of Prague, the Holy Father paid particular homage to the example of saints who planted the seed of faith in the land of the Czech Republic, and to some more modern-day heroes of faith who, even within the last century, suffered persecution, but chose to remain faithful to their call to spread the gospel.
Especially in moments of trial, we need to rely on the love of Christ which sustains us, which gives us hope and which allows us to continue living. Christians gathered in Prague look to the Vicar of Christ for words of encouragement, for they live in a land where support for the Christian Way is sadly lacking, but oft times, it is in places where great efforts have been made to eradicate or ignore the message of the Gospel, or the value of faith, that faith itself and Christ's love is embedded even more strongly in the hearts of believers.
It is good that Catholics and Christians in other parts of the world can also have access to the words of the Holy Father, and that by means of modern-day communication, we too can enter into the meditation which his words enflame in the hearts of those who hear them, for we all need to be fed with such words. We all need our faith to be watered with love, with charity and with inspiration, so that each of us can fulfill his-her call to be salt for the earth, and light for the world (cf Mt 5:13-16).
In Bohemia
Conscious of the fact that practicing Catholics in the Czech Republic are in the minority, the Holy Father addressed the welcoming party upon his arrival in that country, recalling the contributions of various Church figures throughout the past number of centuries, and looks forward to meeting with those who still walk in the Way of the first disciples in the Bohemian land.
Later in the day, His Holiness visited the church of Saint Mary of Victory, the place where the statue of the Divine Infant of Prague is housed. Having been greeted by civil authorities on the steps of the church, he then entered the church where he met with families and their children, and prayed before the exposed Blessed Sacrament and the statue of the Infant.
Greetings were then exchanged between the Holy Father, the President of the Czech Episcopal Conference.
Later today, the Holy Father will meet with Civil and Political Authorities, and will be present at the celebration of Evening Prayer in the Cathedral of Saints Vitus, Wenceslaus and Adalbert accompanied by Men and Women Religious, Seminarians and members of Lay Movements. The pontiff's journey continues until Monday.
Friday, September 25, 2009
I do, every day
At the appropriate moment during the ceremony, the bride and groom will speak to each other (in plain and full hearing of all those who are present to witness this sacred moment):
'I ... take you ... to be my husband/wife. I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad. In sickness and in health I will love you and honour you all the days of my life'.
These few words are packed with meaning and much cause for reflection, if a husband and wife take the time to reflect upon them honestly, and to share with one another the ways that they succeed or struggle with the commitment they enter into.
I promise to be true to you in good times and in bad. Being true to my spouse means that I accept a duty to be faithful to my spouse. It means that I will stand by him-her no matter what happens, and that we agree to keep the lines of communication open. Too often, when there is no communication between spouses, the result can be disasterous, and the possiblities for fruitful marriage pale and then fade into the background. By contrast, where there is faithfulness and communication, the result is a deep respect one for the other, and an abiding love that endures through times of celebration as well as moments of sorrow and distress.
In sickness and in health I will love you and honour you all the days of my life. When things are going well, when everyone is healthy, when both have jobs, when friends and family are supportive, it's easy to love and honour another person, but when things go awry, as often they do, the true test of love can sometimes reveal a truth that is far from the ideal. On the day of a wedding, there is no guarantee that good health will be enjoyed for the rest of one's life, and at times, the suprises that can face us with medical challenges and other storms can be truly surprising. The true test of love is found in the responses we make to such challenges.
Even if health is not a concern, in some cases, loving and honouring a spouse can mean a willingness to stand by him or her even to the point of a willingness to grow in faith. The way that a husband or wife supports the decisions of faith made by their partners can be a source of great blessing but can also cause great amounts of stress. In recent times, there have been more and more instances of couples asking for marriage who do not share the same religious background. Even if they do, this doesn't guarantee that they have the same level of commitment or fervor for their faith, or that they both recognize the value of faith as part of their lives. This too can be a source of great joy, but can just as easily be a source of concern.
It's a good thing that humans can't predict what life will bring. Living life is meant to be an adventure, shared with others who are dear to us, but life doesn't come with any guarantee of happiness, nor of success. Instead, the lucky ones are those who are able to admit their failings and weaknesses, apologize for their wrongdoings and celebrate their successes. Life, well lived, teaches us to be humble. The faster we learn these lessons, the better off, the happier we'll be.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
Voices heard and silent
Various presenters, from countries around the world have been invited to make interventions. Some of these have long histories which are most certainly colouring the way that words are being welcomed or challenged.
Unable to be physically present, even the Holy Father weighed in today, offering a video message to the participants in which he outlined the Vatican's stance on the issue of climate change. In truth, the video message was recorded during the Holy Father's weekly audience which took place yesterday, and a copy of the text he spoke appeared on the Vatican website today.
For years, the Vatican has had permanent observer status at the United Nations. Representatives of the Vatican diplomatic corps are present at the United Nations in a variety of different roles even today.
Youth in action
On that first day, two participants from a nearby youth centre showed up, along with their supervisor, to prepare dinner for their peers who would sit at the table that night. This was a first for them, and a first for all those involved. The questions about who would appear, what stories they would bring, and whether this project would fly or flop were quickly answered as the first participants jumped (at least somewhat) enthusiastically into the fray.
As the day wore on, precious lessons were learned by all those who were present. Most valuable of all though was the truth that strangers had begun to know each other, to risk the possiblity of making themselves vulnerable enough to allow themselves to be known ... and the best part - they had fun doing it.
In the end, a wonderful meal was served to twenty of their peers, and within minutes, the proceeds of their efforts were consumed.
This week, the two returned, and brought a number of their friends with them. The meal that was prepared today was different from the one that was served last week, but the success of this project appears to be well on its way. The secret - honesty from all the participants, honesty with themselves and with others, honesty in offering an opportunity for youth who have for so long had to endure tough times and rejection to actually make a difference for their peers, and to begin to believe in themselves.
In two weeks' time, this group (or at least some of them) will be back, and if all goes well, and the success continues, the numbers who will be asking to partake will continue to grow. Who knew that within such a very short period, so many would want to partake? ... and as long as all those involved are willing to risk the possibility of being vulnerable, the possibilities are endless.
Open the doors
A group of school children welcomed their parents and friends to their school yesterday, for a pizza party and for an occasion to meet with teachers and students, not in a formal manner (there will be other occasions for that as time goes on) but rather for a very informal time of getting to know one another.
Friends and family were given a wonderful opportunity to visit one another, to see the school, its staff and students up close, and even to preview some children's books which were on display. The senior class sponsored a bake sale, with proceeds being contributed to the students' year-end trip, and there was even an opportunity to purchase school shirts: white t-shirts complete with stencils of the school crest and a series of other emblems.
There have been many questions posed of late with regard to the Catholicity of schools today. This experience of visiting with students in such a relaxed environment is and was a valuable opportunity to see faith in action, welcomes being extended and love being shared in simple and profound ways.
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
The world on screen
For moviegoers and stargazers alike, this is a veritable smorgesborg of cinematic forays and finery which hits the screen in this locale for ten days or so every year. This year's offerings include such stunning shows as Unmistaken Child, the documentary which follows the 4-year quest for the selection of the successor to Lama Konchog, a world renound Tibetan master; Cairo Time, the story of an unexpected visit to the Egyptian captial and the mysteries that await there, and The Young Victoria, which closes the festival on Sunday evening.
There's something for everyone.
What a difference a day makes
At the same time, Luca Laruso, the current Counsellor to the Apostolic Nunciature in Canada was in Charlottetown, representing the Nuncio and the Holy Father at the Installation of Charlottetown's 13th bishop, His Excellency, Richard Grecco, who, until now, has served as Auxiliary Bishop of the Archdiocese of Toronto.
Not sure whether they travelled by night, but by the time the sun rose over Ottawa this morning, the whispers in the Loggia and elsewhere were that Archbishop Ventura has been appointed (as of today) as the Holy Father's representative in France. Within the next three months' time, Tio Luigi as he has become known among some friends, will take up residence in Paris. The challenges that face him are many, but given his stelar record for creating easy, joyful rapport with priests, laity and all leaders within and outside the Church, he's more than up to the task.
Tributes are pouring in, honoring the work that he has accomplished during his eight-year sojourn on Canadian soil. When he arrived, he admitted that his only knowledge of Canada was the saying that there were 'a few achres of snow' here. In this very short period, he's managed not only to seize the reality of faith life in Canada, but he's managed to put his stamp on the place, having played a part in the naming of many of our current Bishops.
For the gentleness with which you have always welcomed friends to 'the house of Peter', for your willingness to work so diligently and unselfishly for the good of the Church in this land, and most of all for the piece of your heart you have shared with us all, we give thanks to you and to our God. Bon voyage, tio Luigi. May God continue to guide and inspire you.
Ad multos annos!
On the fly
Arrangements had been made for at least a few weeks, but as to the length of my stay, that had to be curtailed because of the responsibilities that keep this world moving. This was another case though of quality instead of quantity.
Arriving in the Nation's Capital on Sunday evening, it was only a matter of moments after touchdown before old friends were re-aquainted, this time after a period of some seven + years, but like all good friends, time seems to evaporate when we meet face to face, and the stories flow like a primed pump as the lives of otherwise separated souls get reaquainted. These are the stories told around the table, and long into the night. These are the stories told in fleeting visits and in lingering conversations that seem not to want to come to an end.
There's always room for new adventures to be recounted in this kind of meeting too: loves lost and found, new life that is celebrated as it should, and the heart-felt struggles that are more than commonplace for those who face major changes in life.
All too soon, such visits always come to an end, and life continues as the renewed waves of responsibility come crashing in. Like the constantly moving tides, life continues, and we can always dream of the next time when stories will be shared, friends will gather, and lives will intertwine.
Sunday, September 20, 2009
Into a foreign land
On Tuesday of this week, the online news source ZENIT published a story about this papal voyage, entitled Papal Visit to a Land of Nonbelievers. Through the eyes of the Prior of the Carmelite Monastery of the Infant of Prague, the report speaks of the fact that the Czech Republic is for all intents and purposes a secular country, but that the people, although they do not practice their religion as their forefathers (and mothers) did in years of yore, still cling to the tradition of the Infant with a special curiosity and love.
This reflection about a land so far away may cause some of us in other parts of the world to pose similar questions about our own homelands. Where once there was a fervent adherence to the practices and faith traditions of the Church, they seem for all intents and purposes to have been abandoned by the masses. People in this part of the world will still say that they pray, but that they want little or nothing to do with organized religion.
The reasons for this are varied and myriad. Some of them can be addressed by those of us who are on the other side of the fence, and others cannot. One way that we can try to help is by using the power of the internet, to speak to those who are no longer physically present, but who prefer the anonymity of their computer screens in the quest for answers, questions and discussions. We continue to welcome those who come to our doors, but more and more, religion is seen as a commodity which can be consumed when needed, and left on the shelf when not. Sadly, this relegates it to the same rhelm as most other widgets (at least in the minds of some), and the question of relevance for religion in such a society is at times the source of much debate.
In the words of the late Holy Father, John Paul II, the questions of life posed today are no different from those of yesteryear. People search for answers to questions about love, about understanding and about acceptance, when Christ alone has the answers that will satisfy. Would that people of this generation would be courageous enough to look in the right places for the answers, instead of wandering far and wide, expending great efforts to deny the only true answers to their quest.
Saturday, September 19, 2009
Standing up for what is right
North of the 49th parallel, the debate is also simmering. In May of this year, a private member's Bill entitled An Act to amend the Criminal Code (right to die with dignity) was introduced by Bloc-Québécois MP Francine Lalonde. In short, this enactment, if passed into law, would amend the Criminal Code to allow a medical practitioner, subject to certain conditions, to aid a person who is experiencing severe physical or mental pain without any prospect of relief or is suffering from a terminal illness to die with dignity once the person has expressed his or her free and informed consent to die.
Some might say, 'what's the world coming to?' while others no doubt are rejoicing that this Bill has been introduced. The euthanasia entusiasts promote a series of myths, which unfortunately are capitalized upon by the media. Here are some of the disceptions, and just a few clarifications:
- MYTH: This Bill is about a right to die with dignity.
In truth, Bill C384 is not about dying with dignity or palliative care; it is about giving the power to a physician to directly and intentionally cause the death of individuals. This Bill, if adopted, will allow a medical practitioner to directly and intentionally cause death by lethal injection. - MYTH: It will legalize only assisted suicide.
In truth, Bill 384 would amend section 222 and 241 of the Criminial Code. This bill aims to legalize both euthanasia and assisted suicide. - MYTH: It is limited to terminally ill people
In truth, Bill 384 states that people who experience physical or mental pain or terminally-ill would be eligible for euthanasia or assisted suicide. This Bill would also allow people who experience chronic physical and mental pain to die by lethal injection and it does not define terminally-ill. - MYTH: It is limited to competent people who are not depressed.
In truth, this Bill measures competency based on 'appearing to be lucid'. To appear to be lucid does not mean a person is actually competent, only that they appear to be. This Bill would not be limited to people who are actually lucid and would allow people who experience chronic depression to die by euthanasia or assisted suicide. - MYTH: It is not a threat to the lives of people with disabilities or other vulnerable people.
In truth, this Bill allows euthanasia and assisted suicide for people with chronic physical or mental pain, on condition that they 'appear to be lucid'. Many people with disabilities experience chronic physical or mental pain. This Bill directly threatens the lives of vulnerable people with disabilities especially when the medical practitioner has a negative perception of disability. It allows euthanasia for physical and menatl pain and it does not define terminally-ill.
(Thanks to the Catholic Women's League of Canada for these synopses)
While the Bill is still in the Legislative process, before the House of Commons, Canadians can express their views on this subject to their local Members of Parliament, who in turn will make these points of view known on the floor of the House prior to the final vote which will determine whether this initiative lives or dies.
Friday, September 18, 2009
Year of the Priest is for everyone
In a reflection, somewhat blended with humour, Bishop José Ignacio Munilla of Palencia (Spain) has asked a number of questions which are meant as points of reflection for Catholics in general to contemplate with regard to how they recognize and give thanks for the priests who live and work in their midst.
If nothing else, it,s a good brain teaser to get people thinking about those who are often close by and least acknowledged.
Happy New Year
Each year, for some time now, the Pope sends a special greeting to Jews on this occasion, and this year is no exception. According to a ZENIT article published today, Pope Benedict XVI sent a message of congratulations and friendship to the Jewish people on the occasion of the celebration of Rosh Hashanah 5770, Yom Kippur and the upcoming festival of Sukkot.
Cordial relationships between the Pope and the Jewish leadership in Rome have been enjoyed in recent years, and are being built and reinforced in other parts of the world between leaders of churches and synagogues as well as friends and relatives. Every step which brings us closer to one another is an effort well spent, another reason to give thanks.
Love at work
In a society that focuses on productivity as a measure of success, it can often be difficult to judge success in terms of small acts done with great love (thanks to Mother Teresa of Calcutta for that one). Yet, this is exactly what priests should be about in their day to day life. Drawing from the infinite love of Christ, shared in the intimacy of prayer, a priest is called to model this love for those who are entrusted to his care.
Love takes many forms, even within a given day. From the moment of the first sunlight which arouses a prayer of thanks, even as we're wiping sleep from our eyes, to the time that darkness again sets in, we should always be attentive to the opportunities presented for us to respond in love.
These opportunities can come in the most unexpected forms at times, from the most surprising places and circumstances and even from the least likely people. They can take the form of a visitor who arrives at our sick bed to express a word of comfort and compassion, or from a companion who joyfully shares the news of an unexpected visit. It can be seen in the faces of two who prepare for an imminent wedding, and be present in the eyes of the haunted or scared who have nowhere else to turn.
Love is a two-way street, just as present to the giver as to the receiver, but it can easily bypass us if we neglect the opportunity to recognize it, to celebrate it or to cherish it.
Running commentary
A recent posting features Canada's 100m Women's Hurdles superstar, still on the rise, and aiming for the stars.
Thursday, September 17, 2009
Persistence pays
Well, the recipe was found with little effort, and the preparation of the fruit also followed. All was going quite well (thanks very much for asking) until the sugar was added and the newly-formed jelly was jarred ... but the jelly remained liquid and never set.
That's the challenge with pre-written and untested recipes: they seem to have built-in glitches every now and then, just to keep us guessing. Isn't life like that sometimes though? Advise about how to solve a given dillema might be freely offered, but the proof as to whether the suggested action will be effective is never known for sure until it's tested. If it works, all's well; if not, there's a choice to be made: start over, or make adjustments with the given material, or abandon the project.
Choice number three is seldom a viable one, especially for people who love a challenge, and choice number one is not always possible either, depending on the particular test that's put before us. Often, we must work with choice number two, which isn't always a bad thing. Re-working the work in progress gives us an opportunity to mold the unfinished project, massaging it gently at times, and beating it at others, until the desired outcome (or some reasonable facsimile) is achieved.
Whether it's jelly, or some other more complex life project, the lesson to be learned is that persistence pays off, and that the lessons worth learning in life often require ingenuity, flexibility and an open mind. Celebrate the successes, and pick up the pieces of the challenges that might seem at first glance to be insurmountable. The results might surprise even the best of us.
Oh, yes, the jelly eventually did obey.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Celebrating recovery
The journey down this path is an especially dangerous one, since it is often masked by societally accepted norms and behaviors ... until it's too late. The consequence of slipping down this slope is dark and foreboding because it can often spell the difference between success and failure. As one voice called it, 'a journey into death'.
Against this temptation, part of what some have referred to as a Culture of Death, there is still hope. Some of the counsellors who work most closely with victims of alcoholism and dependency were on hand today to celebrate recovery. This was a story of success in the best sense of the word, a moment to say thanks to others in the community who play a part in promoting health and well-being, and helping those who find themselves in dangerous predicaments to rediscover the truth that life is worth living.
It's curious that although we live in a land that has been so richly blessed, and although we have so much already given to us, the human spirit is sometimes not able to comprehend how well off we truly are. Instead, the demons of despair can sometimes take away all hope, and this indeed is the most dangerous place to be.
Today is about recognizing the angels who live in our midst, the ones who give of themselves out of love, so that others can discover or rediscover the truth that life is worth living, that love is worth the risk, that there is always a reason to give thanks, and that those who cannot see these simple realities are the most to be pittied, and the ones who most desperately need our help.
It is right that we should give thanks to those who serve so unselfishly so that others can discover this truth, and it's right that we should laud those who are on the road to recovery, for every recovery begins with one step, but every recovery continues only with lots of hard work, commitment and a re-discovery of the things that are the most valuable in life; often these are the things that are the most attainable, because they're free for the taking.
Tuesday, September 15, 2009
Celebrating special people
Today happens to be the birthday of two people who probably would rather that we forget any thought of celebrating, but who deserve every bit of recognition that we could offer.
One of them is 98 years old today. Despite his humble appearance, and his constant disdain for anything that would point to him in a celebratory way, he is most deserving precicely because he has always been self-deprecating and concerned about others' welfare. Many stories are told of his hospitality, and his constant willingness to share anything he had with anyone who is in need. Even today, he would gladly give anything he has (even though it would appear to the casual onlooker that he really doesn't have much in the way of material possessions) if it would bring happiness to another. Perhaps that's one of the secrets to his long life, along with his abiding love for his wife, who he always refers to as the one who kept things in order. When asked about the secret to his longevity of years, he replies very openly: 'eat breakfast, lunch and dinner every day, but don't eat between meals'. The fact that he walks every day is probably a major contributing factor too.
The other person of honour today is celebrating his 94th birthday. Like his friend, he also appears quite content with life. He still drives a car, and observes a daily routine which involves visiting his wife (yes every day, or at least whenever he can), and maintaining his devotion to family and faith.
Both these men have lived full lives, but they continue to find reasons every day to open their eyes, to put both feet on the floor and to say 'thank you' that they've made it through another restful night. They both observe the tennets of their faith regularly; in fact attendance at their long-time parish church is as much part of their routine as general ablutions are to most of us.
It's not often that either of them receives an invitation to come to dinner, at least not in the parish rectory, but both of them were contacted today, and part of their birthday gift this year involves an invitation to come sit at our table. Both have accepted gracefully, and so we will have the honour of sharing our blessings with them, of listening to their stories, and of sharing our own with them.
What a rare but wonderful opportunity, for them and for us.
If dishes could speak
How did we come to be here?
The story apparently begins quite a few years ago. Some of our compatriots were once unpacked and dusted off for a special dinner party. If I remember correctly, there were about nine of them present that night, and our friends were arranged in their shining glory atop a brilliant red tablecloth. Beside each place setting, there was a menu, outlining the various courses that would appear throughout the night.
It was around 7:30 or so in the evening when they sat on the chairs and served the first course: an assortment of various dim sum like siu-mei, char-siu-baau and vegetable spring rolls, all home-made and each with it's own dipping sauce. Once these were devoured, the next course came along: hot and sour soup, made with mushrooms of various kinds; then the next set of courses: noodles, rice, shrimp, beef, chicken, scallops and vegetables. Only once everyone had eaten enough, and the remnants had been consigned to the other room did the dessert appear: mango and almond pudding, served with assorted fresh fruit.
It's been more than seven years since that fateful night, and ever since that time, our new owner has been looking for a set like us. From one coast to another, the hunt has been unsuccessful, until that night a few months ago, when he called our former owner and asked about where he could find a set just like our friends. The answer took a few twists and turns, but finally we were unearthed, saved from the cupboard where we were facing certain banishment.
Now that we've arrived in this new place, there's the promise of more parties, more festivities, more gatherings around another table. We will do our best to make every gathering elegant, and we're sure that whoever is invited to sit will be impressed by what we have to offer.
Silver bullet landing
Her parents, and some of her adoring fans were there to greet her, as were some members of the media who were eager to get reactions from her about her competitons, and to express the pride we all have in her.
While she was on tour, she celebrated her 26th birthday. There's a party being planned for this coming weekend to celebrate with family and friends. In the meanwhile, some rest and relaxation will have to compete for attention with the local media who will no doubt be looking for words of encouragement and wisdom from her.
Welcome home Priscilla, and congrats once more.
Saturday, September 12, 2009
At the home of the Olympics
At the beginning of the race, the order of runners was:
- Lacena Golding-Clarke (JAM)
- Delloreen Ennis-London (JAM)
- Damu Cherry (USA)
- Priscilla Lopes-Schleep (CAN)
- Brigitte Foster-Hylton (JAM)
- Dawn Harper (USA)
- Perdita Felicien (CAN)
- Danielle Caruthers (USA)
- Brigitte Foster-Hylton (JAM-12.58)
- Dawn Harper (USA-12.61)
- Deloreen Ennis-London (JAM-12.61)
- Priscilla Lopes-Schleep (CAN-12.61)
- Perdita Felicien (CAN-12.61)
- Damu Cherry (USA-12.75)
- Lacena Golding-Clarke (JAM-13.03)
- Danielle Caruthers (USA-13.37)
Talk about a photo finish! Watch the video coverage of the race, and check out the photo finish for this one.
Friday, September 11, 2009
Litany of blessings
Yesterday afternoon, once all the formal meetings were complete, and the stories had been told, it was time to celebrate. As 'tradition' would have it, Thursday evening is reserved for a celebratory banquet which is accompanied or followed by some kind of local entertainment.
As the day was drawing to a close, new friends and old sat together at table to break bread. In a sense, you might say that we were breaking bread all week long: sharing stories and living the very fraternity of which we were speaking. Somehow, it was fitting then that we should formalize this fraternity around a table, and find some time to enjoy some wonderful live music which was so uplifting as to inspire some to dance and many others to join in the lyrics, much to the joy of the musicians themselves.
This final day was devoted to recognizing the blessings we have experienced, to voicing them, and to looking forward, discerning the next steps that need to be taken on the journey. The fruit of this discussion will come to light in the coming days, weeks and months, but for now, it's enough that we have spoken of our thankfulness for blessings received.
As we sat at the Lord's Table (the group had already begun to shrink due to varying departure times), I couldn't help recognizing the parallel between what we were living and what Jesus and his disciples had lived so many years ago. They too had gathered around a banquet table to share a meal. They too had perhaps not recognized the gift that was being offered as they partook of bread and wine, blessed and broken, which would somehow change their lives.
One wise author once remarked that the Last Supper was the unbloodied sacrifice which prefigured the events of Good Friday, which would be the fulfillment of the greatest gift of love. How fitting that the banquet which fed our bodies should precede the banquet that nourished our souls today.
As we departed from the chapel, and it was transformed once again into the ordinary room that it once was, the sacred action that took place within during this week was transported in visible form back to another location, while it continues also to be carried within each of us who was privileged to be present.
Lessons have been spoken this week. Lessons have perhaps been heard. What is sure is that those who partook in this sacred action, with open hearts and minds, have now departed, somehow changed, hopefully better, certainly more prepared to respond in love to the call of service that awaits us.
See for yourself
Others too have kept their own pictorial souvenirs of this meeting. As they are shared, they too will be posted in this album.
Thursday, September 10, 2009
Words of wisdom
Today, we had an opportunity to reflect with yet another confrere about the subject of fraternity, and we discovered a person who has grown up knowing no other way but fraternity. Concern for others and an ability to give of ourselves, or to share our resources is learned in the family home. For those who were lucky enough to have this experience, fraternity seems natural, but for those of us who are part of the ... ehem ... younger generations, this supposition cannot necessarily be presumed.
Familes are the schools where valuable lessons about fraternity are first learned, but they are not the only places. If we are lucky, we've had other confreres who have modeled for us the essentials of welcome. Otherwise, perhaps there are lay people who have offered us a Bethany by welcoming us into their midst (though the subject of our gathering focuses more on the former situation rather than this latter one).
Fraternity challenges all of us to grow, to look beyond our own expectations, and to consider the others who walk the sacerdotal road with us. When we were ordained, we were welcomed into the family of priesthood, and this is where we must practice the virtues of fraternity. This is sometimes easy (as in moments when we welcome friends into our midst for a meal or when we offer advise to a close collegue), but fraternity can also be challenging (as when we reach out to the isolated, lonely and distanced among us.
To some degree, fraternity must be an intentional act, always aimed at welcoming and at hospitality, sometimes aimed at challenging out of fraternal love, and never practiced because of selfish or alterior motives.
The verdict
Britain is an increasingly secular society, not unlike Canada in many ways. There is an ever-growing diversity of cultural backgrounds and faith traditions represented in major cities throughout that part of the world, and the result is that while Catholics do enjoy a certain level of respect shown by some ranks of the aristocracy, for the most part, we must play the game if we want to live in peace with all folk.
As a result, any organizations that rely on the generosity of people at large to keep them going (as the Pontifical Mission Society and others do) are increasingly forced to find ways to blend into the mosaic and to be perceived as little as possible as having anything to do with a particular faith. Else they risk the possibility of being alienated from the major purses that otherwise are available to the likes of charities.
This phenomenon also exists on this side of the pond. We see it in the decisions more and more often made by major corporations and foundations who shy away from contributing funds to churches, apparently because of a fear of being perceived as favoring one over another. As a result, organizations who depend on the generosity of such organizations as sources of income must find creative ways to blend into the background, while (hopefully) continuing the valuable work they do.
Sadly, this means that at least on the surface, for the sake of appearances, all vestages of faith-based organizations, such as the Church, are being forced to downplay their existence, even though they may very well continue the apostolate they offer. The question is, for how long can such groups continue. Truthfully, faith is strengthened by persecution, so perhaps this is just another moment of testing for the Church, and for people of faith. What will result remains to be seen. One thing is sure, those who survive will be all the more enriched by the experience.
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
Across the pond
The Pontifical Mission Societies are a vehicle meant to educate the First World about life in other parts of our world, and to enable those with much to share their abundance with those who have little.
What exactly this re-branding initiative is all about, I'll have to investigate, but with some reps here from that land, it shouldn't be too difficult to find the answers. More later ...
When the rubber hits the road
Throughout his life, Saint Peter knew more than his fair share of trials and tribulations, so perhaps Providence was with us again today as our day began with a Mass presided over by our Nigerian guest who rightly observed that we in the First World do not enjoy an easy time of it when it comes to being priests, since the world around us pays us little or no attention. In that sense, we are to be numbered among the leprous, the castaways, the abandoned. This is a strange image perhaps, but it is one that is not so far from the truth.
It is only when we priests are able to idenify ourselves in these terms that we will be able to identify correctly with those in our society who most need us, for only then will we truly begin to grasp the true meaning of the persons we are, and the promise of salvation we are called to embody for people in our world today. This is a very difficult truth for some to admit, and yet it is a necessary truth which must find its rightful place if we are truly to grow in compassion, especially to those who most need us.
This morning's presentations were particulary poignant:
- first, a short meeting with members of a previously unknown group of lay people who belong to a group called Opus Bono Sacerdotii. Relatively unknown to most of us, these committed Catholic lay people devote their time and talents to helping priests who have been suspended from office, either because they have been accused of impropriety or because they are awaiting some encounter with the legal system and must do so without continuing to exercise their ministry in an active way.
It was evident from the moment they began to speak that these men are deeply spiritual, that they take this commitment to service of priests who are experiencing difficulty very seriously, and that they are willing to use their talents to help those who are most in need. As they shared their story, eyes were wrapt on the presenters, and as their limited time with us came to a close, we responded with a standing ovation as a show of support on our part for the good work these people of faith are accomplishing, one day, one case, one moment at a time.
- second, an encounter with His Grace, Thomas Collins, currently serving as Archbishop of Toronto. In an easy manner which reminded many of us of another time when this man was a priest, teaching in a seminary, and inspiring us to delve deeper into the mystery of our call and vocation, His Grace shared reflections about significant moments in the life of priests, especially as we celebrate them at moments of funerals and ordinations.
This man, who so obviously has a deep love for priesthood, and who understands the difficulties our brothers face, as well as the joys we celebrate (because he too has been there, and continues to be there as a companion on the journey), is an inspiration for the rest of us who seek to do our little part to help our brothers to recognize the blessing we are to others, and to be blessings to one another in times of celebration as well as in times of sorrow and pain.
The latter of these two is not always an easy place to be in. It certainly is not the place of rest, but it is often the place where the rubber hits the road, where our brothers most need to know that they have not been abandoned, and that there is SOMEONE who will listen compassionately. This is a necessary part of the work we must be about if we are truly concerned with the welfare of priests in our country, and in other parts of the world.
Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Reflecting on priesthood
One of our collegues was invited to share with us today some of his personal reflections, discoveries and wisdom about the value of fraternity in his life. Using resources from the writings of the Curé d'Ars himself, as well as some of the reflections provided more recently by the Holy Father, he reminded us that priesthood is never accepted for our own good, but rather as an act of love offered in response to a deeply personal call issued first from the heart of God, and resounding (so long as we will listen) within our own souls.
Much of the work of the NFPC is focused on the welfare of priests in our respective countries, and so we also chose to share with our international brothers a short exposé on the subject of our two most recent publications:
Both these documents are the fruit of discussions and deliberations between the priests of Canada. They are honest reflections on the state of priesthood today, and are meant to be used again and again as sources of reflection for priests as well as discussion starters and fodder for the odd heart-to-heart between two or more disciples who are walking the road as companions on the journey.
Since their respective publications, these documents have both been very well received. The more they are used and passed along, the more they are proving to be truly prophetic documents, inviting dialogue, prayer and honesty (at times brutal honesty) with ourselves and with those with whom we trust enough to share our stories.
Our hope has always been, and continues to be, that this work will bear fruit not only for the priests of this country, but for all who may find it challenging for their spirits, and nourishing for their souls.
Down to business
It is 'traditional' during the meeting of International Gatherings of this nature that a certain period of time is devoted to sharing snapshots of the state of the union in our respective countries at least as it pertains to the life of the clergy (priests mostly).
Stories were told today about the vast expanses of empty space in central Australia, where people live on stations (extremely large sheep and cattle ranches), where transportation of priests and people in general usually involves aircrafts as much as automobiles. We also heard stories of Nigeria's 140 million people, 48% of whom are Roman Catholic, and we heard stories of the triumphs and struggles that are part of daily life in Ghana, the United Kingdom and the United States.
As we listened to these stories, and eventually told our own, I couldn't help remarking how many similarities there are between the life lived by priests here and the life lived today in many other parts of the world. The reality is that here and abroad, there are declining numbers of bodies, yet there is still a genuine thirst among the people of God for some kind of spirituality. As one voice explained, it appears more and more evident that the Church is being purified and that we are in the midst of a transition, the result of which we cannot predict.
In many parts of the world, as it is represented at this meeting, there is a keen knowledge of the humanity of priesthood today, the challenges we face, and our own human frailty while we do our best to respond faithfully to the call that we have heard.
Some would say that it's a matter of fate, while others admit that Providence is at work. Whichever point we choose to start from, the truth is that today is also the Feast of the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin. During the Mass celebrated today, one of our Aussie brothers, who was presiding and sharing his wisdom with us asked a question (admittedly with regard to the scripture passages we had heard): 'How is God loving me through the words I have just heard?'
I wonder if the same question cannot be applied to the state of priesthood today. It might run something like this: 'How is God loving us today, priests and other clerics, lay faithful and all those who faithfully strive to respond each day to the call to discipleship?
Monday, September 7, 2009
Rolling out the red carpet
Labour Day weekend is usually a frenzy of humanity in this part of the world because people who are denoting the traditional end of summer come to spend one last day (or night) gazing at the Falls, perhaps reminicing about adventures lived or lost over the past months, or perhaps creating new memories even as they stroll the busy streets around the hotel district. However, even before the hubub of this weekend's party is quieted to a dull roar, other adventures are about to unfold.
Every year, the National Federation of Presbyteral Councils, a group of Canadian priests, each of whom represents the presbyterate of his arch-diocese, gathers for the Annual Assembly. These meetings traditionally take place in various locales across Canada, alternating between regions (Western, Central or Eastern Canada). This year, the lot has fallen to Central Canada to host the meeting, and the specific location within Central Canada that has been chosen is the city of Niagara Falls.
Not only will this week see priests from across Canada arriving at the Falls, but there's yet another chapter to this adventure. Two years ago, the NFPC was invited to consider hosting an International Meeting of Clergy, involving priests from various English-speaking countries throughout the world. After more than a year of planning, the day has finally arrived, and guests are still arriving from places as far-flung as California and New Mexico (USA); Brisbane and Western Australia; London, England and Cardiff, Wales; Accra, Ghana; and Abuja, Nigeria.
The theme around which our conversations will centre is Rediscovering the Blessings of Fraternity. We've only been together for a few hours in this place and already the conversations that are taking place around our tables are showing promising signs of fraternity being discovered, celebrated and re-created.
Long-time collegues and new-found friends are easily able to look past cultural boundaries when given the once-rare opportunity to break down the walls of cultural differences and begin to understand that we are no longer a world of many various countries, ethnicities and cultures (except for the political boundaries and realities which we must continue to observe). Rather, from a socio-political point of view, the world is ever-shrinking and the faster we learn to grasp this reality and to face the truth that each of us has an amazing opportunity lying right in front of us - a chance to capitalize on the possibility of learning from one another, and thus of becoming all the more richly blessed - the faster we will be able to truly understand the potential that comes about when bonds such as faith, love and service bind us even tighter than any political force could ever hope to impose.
Now that the hellos and how-are-you's are complete (for the most part) the work of telling the story begins. Wise ones among us will remember that we have two ears, and only one mouth. Providing a place and an opportunity for the stories of how priesthood is lived in various corners of the world will be the subject of tomorrow's deliberations.
For now, slumber awaits.
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Mass with the masses
The church is relatively recently constructed, not the first gathering place for this faith community, but a current testament to the strength of their faith. Within its walls people come to pray, to thank God for his continued presence, and to ask for guidance. The heart of the parish is easily discerned, for every member of this congregation seems to be intent on welcoming the stranger among them.
Music ushers all to prayer, and the story that unfolds is told, at least this part of it, in word, song and verse. People of faith receive the forgiveness and sustainance that they seek, and then are sent on their way, oh, but not before stopping, just for a moment, to enjoy a cup of coffee and a freshly-baked biscuit (made right on the premises while you wait).
A pleasure to meet you. Do come back again, and know of our prayerful presence with you in the coming week.
Saturday, September 5, 2009
A quick visit
With these words, began the visit that has been so long awaited. Friends who have not set eyes on one another for more than a decade were reunited, in a new place, after much water has flowed under the proverbial bridge. Despite all this, it was as though they had met just a few days ago.
Seated comfortably in the waning sunshine, stories flowed easily: stories of the comings and goings of two who have found a new place, and settled in quite well; stories of moves which have been lived and other adventures embarked upon; stories of impending meetings and of anticipated travels; stories of struggles and successes faced, conquered and currently unfolding.
Conversations continued well on into the night until human strength was forced to submit to the steady tick of the clock which summoned slumber.
Tomorrow's another day, more adventures and visits await, but for now, all must wait.
Next stop Slovakia
Coverage in the Toronto Star this morning was very complementary, and even last night, the major networks picked up the story, some even just as a passing note, mingled with the other happenings in the sports world throughout the day.
Within hours of the race being completed, she's off and running again, this time to Slovakia where she'll compete today. More coverage of today's festivities will appear as they become available.
Friday, September 4, 2009
The road ahead
The black ribbon that they follow is a seemingly never-ending avenue to adventure, marked occasionally by various signals meant to control the pace at which the beasts run up and down, from side to side and in every direction possible.
Along the way, there are signs for all to see, if they have the eyes to discern: cherry red flashes of light warn of danger ahead, while also calling to those who violate the rules, the ultimate mode of policing, meant to ensure that all the rules are followed, and that infractions are punished.
As one floats down this undulating stream, an onlooker would wonder what kind of system this is. Where is the order? What are the rules? However, in the end, every journey begins and ends; if all is well, the occupants of the metal beasts reach their destinations safely, united with family and friends, ready for a rest before setting out on the black ribbon once again.
Silver girl
In fact, it only took 12.48 seconds for the first competitor in the Golden League competition held in Brussels today to cross the finish line. From what I've heard, the officials were all set to award the prizes but then discovered that they were handing the honors to the wrong woman.
According to the official results, Priscilla placed second today, but only by .01 seconds! Her time of 12.49 seconds is a personal best for her, proof that the grueling pace of the competitions is not wearing her down, but in fact is proving to be very good for her.
We're all very proud of you. Congratulations!
Welcoming the world
This year, we are combining the annual gathering with an International Meeting of Clergy. Priests will be arriving in the coming days from the United States of America; from England and Wales; from Australia; from Ghana and from Nigeria, as well as from most English-speaking dioceses across the country to take part in this five-day meeting.
Preparations for this coming week began two years ago. In one sense it's hard to believe that the time is finally here. By now most of the prep work is done, and we'll just have to let things roll from here. What adventures await? Only time will tell. In the meanwhile, these last few days will no doubt slip away in their own time, filled with the comings and goings of life.
Details about our gathering will appear, no doubt, as they occur, so stay tuned.
Thursday, September 3, 2009
Off to the races
From what I understand CBC Sports will be streaming the race live. The link will be available tomorrow on their website. Coverage begins at 13:50 CN Tower time.
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Back to the grind
The start of the school year always signals a certain restarting to various parts of the routines that we observe in my walk of life too. As such, the first meeting of this 'year' (a gathering with the folks who coordinate liturgical happenings around here, was held tonight. Actually, meetings with this committee don't happen all that often, but as a result, we tend to cover a significant amount of ground when we do.
There are often a number of ideas bandied about, and some of them actually get put into practice quite effectively. People who are willing to advance possiblities for making things better, more interesting, and more lively are always welcome at this table, and the followup that must happen following the meeting often proves to be challenging and rewarding at the same time.
As it turns out, we had at least a preliminary look at various celebrations which will take place here in the coming days, weeks and months ... right up until Christmas and New Year's Day. Now we need to do the necessary 'stuff' so that all these plans can become a reality.
Off and on the track
And I'm told that the publicity doesn't end there. Apparently her picture is featured on the cover of Canadian Running Magazine. Copies of issue 2.6 appeared on newsstands this week.
While all this publicity is hot off the press at home, Priscilla herself is still hard at work, taking care of her muscles and preparing for the next race, in Brussels, which takes place on Friday of this week. Here's the lineup of racers, just released a few hours ago (in order of lanes 1-8):
- Caruthers
- Elizabeth Davin
- Deloreen Ennis-London
- Priscilla Lopes-Schleep
- Briggite Foster-Hilton
- Derval O'Rourke
- Berrings
- Tiffany Ofili
Stay tuned for more info as it becomes available.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
The right fit
Today, I was on a mission (with an accomplice of course). My friend had generously agreed to do some research in the past couple of days, and it was finally time to check out the findings. The object of our quest: a television for the now refinished basement. The places to visit: the local COSTCO outlet and a local audiotronics store located nearby.
In the end, it only took an hour to sleuth out the answers to our questions ... and those were myriad considering that up until now, this establishment hasn't made it into the era of plasma screens or high definition technology. Thankfully, the salesmen were very knowledgeable and freely answered all our questions. They even ventured a few opinions that helped us to reach our conclusions.
'The way to figure out what size you need,' one of them ventured, 'is to measure the width of the screen (horizontally from left to right) and then multiply by 3.5. The result is the maximum distance from the screen that you should be sitting.' With this in mind, we did some quick calculations and ended up with a 42-inch screen. As luck would have it, this particular size and model was on sale, and the price was too good to pass up.
The result ... we now have the television ensconced in it's new home, and the call has been made to the local cable provider. As soon as they arrive, we're in business.