Funeral homily for
Yvonne McCarthy
Whoever listens to my words, and believes in the One who sent me, has
eternal life. These words of Jesus,
spoken to his disciples, testify to his belief, or perhaps better his
conviction - that the Father had sent him and confided to him a very special
mission: to announce the good news of the Kingdom to humanity. Having heard this good news, ours is the task
of believing it, or coming to believe it, and to believe in the One who sent
Jesus to proclaim it to us.
Some of Jesus’ words were written
down so that we could remember them.
These words are confided to us so that we might come to cherish them, so
that we might rely on them to give us strength in our weakness, so that we
might find solace in them when life sends us challenges. These words are given to us also as a pledge
of fidelity, a promise that even as we live our lives here on earth, we can
look forward to eternal life promised by God who has loved us from the moment
of our conception within the womb of our mothers.
Together with Gerry, her
beloved husband, her precious children, their spouses and children, and other
members of Yvonne’s extended family, this family of faith gathers today as a
sign of our faith to pray her into eternal life for throughout the life she
lived here on earth, she was always a woman of faith, who believed in the One
who has loved us from the moment of our birth, and who accompanies us on every
step of life’s journey.
A few days ago when I met with
some of the members of Yvonne’s family, they shared with me some of the
characteristics that they recognized in her.
They spoke of a woman who loved the outdoors, a woman who was in many
ways very private, but who never complained except if she didn’t catch enough
fish. She possessed the extraordinary
gift of unconditional love and was able to put everyone else’s needs before her
own, but I get the impression that she was not the kind of person who you’d
want to cross. Sometimes it’s good to be
able to call a spade a spade. Some
aspects of life necessitate such honesty.
We should never be afraid to challenge people, especially when we love
them enough to want only the best for them.
This kind of challenge was
also modeled for the Christian community in Rome when Saint Paul reminded them
that With God on our side, who can be
against us? These are the words of
one who has already come to believe in the power of God’s love, because he has
first put them to the test and found them to be true. Paul had also discovered that nothing can come between us and the love of
Christ … made visible in Christ Jesus our Lord. The life we live here on earth presents its
fair share of challenges. At times we
might even feel persecuted or attacked, but if we are people of faith and if we
truly believe that God is on our side, then we will never give up. We will continue to look for solutions until
we find a way to make things work, and in the end we will fall on our knees and
thank God that He has accompanied us through days of challenge as well as days
of great joy and celebration.
Gerry, Yvonne loved you very
much. Together you shared 57 years of
married life. These years should always
be cherished, and the memories you created together are gifts which are yours
to treasure. There were also days of
challenge, I’m sure. No life worth
living is free of challenge, but it’s by learning how to accept the challenges,
at times to turn them into opportunities, and certainly by learning lessons
from these challenges that we grow into the people we are meant to become. There never seems to be enough time to learn
these lessons and to cherish them as they should be cherished, for virtuous persons are often taken from us
long before their time, but today as we gather in this place, our faith
tells us that Yvonne’s soul has been
found pleasing to God; now that her suffering is over, he has taken her to
live with him in the place where grace
and mercy await all of us, the chosen of the Lord.
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