Friday, August 9, 2013

Looking on God

Funeral homily for Salvatore Chiocchio
Carissimi amici!  In questa bellissima giornata, siamo riuniti in preghiera, si sono riuniti nella fede per pregare e per celebrare la Messa della Resurrezione per il nostro fratello Salvatore.  It is very good for us to be here today, to pray together, and to give thanks to God.  At moments such as these, we look to the scriptures for consolation and for hope.

Just two months ago, Salvatore and Amelia celebrated the 60th anniversary of their marriage.  Their daughters Sylvana and Antonietta were present, along with the rest of their family to share in that joyful moment.  On that day, the stories were no doubt told and retold, as they have for the past six decades: stories of how Salvatore and Amelia met in the village of Cocullo, hidden in the hills of the Appenine mountains; how, they learned their earliest lessons about life and about faith from their parents: lessons about Jesus, about his mother Mary and her husband Joseph, about the strength that we can draw from faith, about trust in God.  There were also other stories, about how Sam and Amelia fell in love and eventually decided to marry; how Sam accepted the challenge of leaving his wife and their two daughters in Italy in order to come to Canada in search of work; how he scrimped and saved in order to bring them to Canada; and all the other dreams which have been realized since their arrival in North Bay in the late 1950s.  Like so many others, Salvatore and Amelia brought their family here, but they also brought their faith, their belief that no matter where we might choose to pitch our tent and build our lives, God is always close to us, loving us, providing for our needs and helping us to discover the treasures that life has to offer: happiness, love, gratitude and a companion or two to walk the road by our side.

 Faith and trust in God is at the heart of every disciple.  Faith and trust are the gifts of our God which help us to celebrate and give thanks in times of prosperity, and to face the challenges which also come our way.  Even as Jesus was teaching his disciples these valuable lessons, he knew that he himself would not always be able to walk physically by their sides; human existence here on this earth is only for a finite number of days, and none of us knows how many days we have, yet the secret to true happiness is learning how to enjoy life one day at a time, paying attention to the people who are most important to us, caring for those who are entrusted to our keeping, and watching out for those who need our help.

If we all learn these lessons, and take them to heart, none of us will be surprised to hear the words of the Master: the Son of Man is coming at an hour you do not expect.  When the Lord calls, we will hear his voice as an invitation, and we will respond in faith.  Even in the most difficult moments of earthly existence, we will learn to give thanks for the blessings we have received, and we will be able to look forward in hope because we know that when our God comes for us, he will always take us to himself, rewarding us with the joy of seeing him face to face in heaven.

Somewhere deep down, at the depth of our hearts, we all hope that life as we know it, complete with all its joys and blessings can continue infinitely, and that we will always have those we love most in our company, but mortal life is not so.  From the day of our baptism, each of us learns, day by day, to trust in the promise of our God.  This is a promise which is given by one who loves us even more than we can imagine.  It is a promise that speaks of life eternal, not here on earth, but in heaven.  Life here on earth is a preparation for heaven, and each of us will someday be called home to heaven.  None of us can change this plan, but all of us can learn how to live even the most difficult moments with grace and with faith.

Along the way, we have the gifts of friendship and companionship in faith.  We have the words of scripture to console us and to guide us, and we have the great gift of the Eucharist, the bread of angels which strengthens us and unites us.  Dear friends, let us therefore be united in our prayer for Salvatore.  Together, let us ask the Lord to have mercy on his soul, and to help each of us to grow in faith, so that we might profess to the world around us: I know that my redeemer lives … and one day, in my flesh, I will look on God.

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